NEW YORK DATING– GENDER GAMES

From your mother to your best friend, you have asked them how you can be a super-date. You have listened to everyone. You have smiled while watching Will Smith’s date-grabbing advice-loaded latest movie, Hitch. If your curiosity about how to be a New York super-date still persists, you have the latest guide on dating from Tracey Cox-Super-date: how to be one and how to get one.

Men are so stupid

The key issue involved is about decoding the body language of your partner, learning to comprehend and interpret the signs, signals and subtle movements, which indicate the inner-most feelings and desires of your dating partner.

The No. 1 tip is: “Try to make it not seem like a date. The people who get asked out most are those who make people comfortable.” You have to be friendly with the person you date. If your New York dating partner says ‘gosh, it feels like I’ve known you forever’, you are doing everything right.

The trick is to forget about vetting your date as a future partner. Try to ascertain what is the real passion of your date. If you can find that out, you will turn out to be a great date. It is actually easy to know if a woman is interested in you; she will touch you and look at you in a certain way. Men are so stupid, they always miss these things.

Connecting with your Date mentally

This is easier said than done. Finding out the other person’s real passion requires asking questions, which could mean intrusion into the privacy with most people. You must remember that we are all emotional and have a tendency to fiercely safeguard our territory. You normally do not divulge certain aspects of your life. The exception is when the person invading your space is someone you want to get closer with. The entire experience becomes an elaborate and enjoyable gain. Dating success is actually all about laughter and lots of eye contact.

You should not take everything at face value. If a person appears stiff, you must keep talking with each other and watch for ‘micro-expressions’. A lot of people who are shy or uncertain of themselves, ‘mask’ a false expression. Smart New York dating is the best way to super-dating. Of course, you can use the services of dating agencies for a quick and easy way to meet singles in New York or virtually anywhere else in the world.